Happiness abounds, or does it? For me the answer would be
yes! I prefer to live happy, and it is a preference I work on, though not as
much as I used to. I've always been optimistic, a resilient sort who views the
glass half full. Just as I went from running to becoming a runner, I nurtured
my optimism and grew into a full blown optimist. The quiz I took even says so! (LearnedOptimism by Martin E. P. Seligman, PhD)
There have been events, situations and people along the way
that have shaped my positive perspective. Most have come in the form of
challenges namely my sons and their disabilities as well as my own battle with breast cancer. Others have come in the form of inspiration such as Ellen Degeneres, TeamHoyt and YouTube sensations like Kid President and Arthur, the paratrooper turned yogi .
I also use what I like to call inspirational quotes, aka
words of wisdom. Just a few of the right words can give an attitude adjustment
in just a few seconds. Just a few of the right words can set the tone in a
classroom, opening young minds to endless possibilities. Just a few of the
right words can give perspective on life or compassion for the life of another.
Just a few of the right words can bolster strength and fortitude in order to
accomplish the seemingly impossible.
I would like to share some words of wisdom that summarize
how I evolved from being optimistic into being an optimist. In her book Instant Happy, Karen Salmanshon says, “Much
of the pain in life comes from having a life plan that you've fallen in love
with, but that doesn't work out. Having to find a new life plan hurts. The
trick is not to become attached to any particular life plan and to remember
that there is always a better, EVEN-HAPPIER life plan out there somewhere.”
It wasn't in the plan to have two children with
disabilities, but it happened. It wasn't in the plan to have breast cancer, but
it happened. Over the course of a decade, I learned that I cannot count on any plan, best laid, well-intentioned, or
fool-proof. What I can count on is my ability to patiently and lovingly embrace any plan as it unfolds
in front of me.
To illustrate, two years ago I put in for a transfer which I
would call blind. I was requesting to leave one school, and with that request I
had to be okay with ending up wherever they found a spot for me. I didn’t just
throw caution to the wind, I threw my hat in the ring, I signed on the dotted
line, I was all in. I was a little taken aback at colleagues who were afraid
for me. Why be afraid? The new prospective job did not scare a little ol' optimist like me because I knew I was
taking me to go do it!
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